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What’s up! For those unfamiliar, my name is Matthew Richard Barnes. But I just go by Barnes. I like it better. It’s easier, brief, and memorable enough.

I’m starting this blog as a way to memorialize some of my experiences and share some lessons and insights. I hope it helps someone out there.

A little background:

I’m a business owner coming up on my one year anniversary. Woot! I design super cool products and gifts for people to share. I’m a family man. Three amazing offspring. They are absolute inspiration for all I am and do. I’ve got an amazing partner that I’d be nowhere without. An exceptional human being that I love dearly. Love cooking, cycling, making products for my business, growing that business, and spending time with especially rad people. My absolute favorite thing in the world is to make people feel awesome. About themselves, about others, about ideas, and about the future. It took awhile, but that is the golden thread that has weaved me to now and will into the future. (More on that as things unfold.)

Okay, I’m going to be like super vulnerable here and tell you something that I don’t often share with others. I’ll be 42 in a month. (That’s not the thing) Since the age of 14 I’ve been a working person. In that time frame I’ve worked over forty plus jobs, gigs, startups, and projects. (That’s the thing) What I learned in each experience was supremely invaluable. Lessons in leadership and failure, culture and business conduct, as well as selling tactics and practices. I’m going to share that all here. Eventually.

But first, I want to start from the beginning. Not to bore you, but to give you some context on all that I’ve seen and been through. Below is a list of every single job I’ve had since the age of 14.

  1. Baseball Card Shop clerk - 1 day

  2. Comic Book Shop clerk - PackRat Comics - 1 day

  3. Caddie - Muirfield Village Golf Club - (Seasonally for 11 of 14 years)

  4. Dishwasher - Otie’s Pub - 8 months

  5. Busboy - Lonestar Steakhouse and Saloon - 9 months

  6. Burger flipper - Backyard Burgers - 3 months

  7. Clerk - West Coast Video - 6 months

  8. Sandwich Maker - Jersey Mike’s Subs - 4 months

  9. Kitchen Staff - Tumbleweed Steakhouse - 4 months

  10. Grounds Crew - Heritage Golf Club - 4 months

  11. Retail Sales Clerk - Structure - 6 months

  12. Marketing intern - Structure - 6 months

  13. Retail Sales Clerk - Abercrombie - 18 months

  14. Deli Cook - Cafe Bella - (on and off 4 years)

  15. Kitchen Staff - Funny Bone Comedy Club - 3 weeks

  16. Kitchen Staff - Figlio - 3 months

  17. Leasing Agent - JPI Properties - 6 months

  18. Front Desk Attendant - Marriott Hotels - 4 months

  19. Valet Parking Attendant - Platinum Parking - 6 months

  20. Handyman Assistant - Koolers Powerwashing - 5 weeks

  21. Bouncer - Long Street Live - 4 months

  22. Actor - As The World Turns - 1 week

  23. Counter Attendant - Bronze Bubble Tanning and Laundry - 4 months

  24. Server - Rafferty’s - 1 month

  25. Assistant Manager - Abercrombie - 6 months

  26. Marketing Associate - Property Marketing - 3 weeks

  27. Server - Lemongrass Fusion Bistro - 7 months

  28. Kitchen Staff - Roosters - 3 months

  29. Server - Cameron Mitchell Restaurants/Catering - 9 months

  30. Founder - SHOWColumbus - 18 months

  31. Lead Generator - Quest Software - 8 months

  32. Marketing Director - Delaware Golf Club - 4 months

  33. Photographer/Videographer - 2 years

  34. Experiential Game Designer - tweetandgoseek - 6 years

  35. Freelance Business Development - FUDHA - 6 months

  36. Ice Cream Pint Labeler - Jeni’s Splendid Ice Creams - 1 month

  37. Wholesale Sales Director - Jeni’s Splendid Ice Creams - 16 months

  38. Executive Creative Director/Co-Founder - CivitasNow - 36 months

  39. Co-Founder - RootsUp - 6 months

  40. Sales Development Director - Trident Design - 8 months

  41. EQ Group Lead - Next Level Trainings - 6 months

  42. Freelance Model - 6 months

  43. Charitable Cause Project - A Rising Tide - 4 months

  44. Development Director - Weber Associates - 8 months

  45. Sales Director - Ares Sportswear - 13 months

  46. Co-Founder - Leisure Club - 27 months

  47. Account Director - Postali - 6 months

  48. Assistant Janitor - BarnesCards - Forever

The months aren’t going to add up exactly. Sometimes I was working 2 or 3 jobs at once or none at all. This is just to give a little context to the lineage of my professional working life. Every bit of it has lead me to now.

I am so excited to share with you all of the lessons I’ve learned. Buckle up, there will some inspiring stories as well as helpful tips on ways to improve your business, create additional value for the world, and connect with people in purpose driven and meaningful ways. I hope the posts ahead will help you in one way or another.

Barnes.

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